Ek wholesome moment report karna chaunda si
okay so confession time- I've grown up in a traditional joint family, and me being the eldest kid and that too a girl, had to rebel for literally every single modern day concept. Be it short dresses, going to a whole different city for college, hanging out with friends, having male friends, even for my own fucking privacy. I remember when I was in 9th grade, my aunt read my diary and told everyone about it. It was pretty hard as a teenager, I too was a pain in the ass. I do blame my parents for some things, but I completely understand it was their first time being a parent too. I don't hold any grudges against them. They never had an example, I was the first kid in my generation, in my paternal as well as my maternal family. I was given proper princess treatment till I was 6 and then due to some issues I had to live with my relatives, on and off for 2 years, and life went downhill. It was only a matter of few days and there were genuine issues at my home but I was kid, I remember crying myself to sleep on some days. Then when I returned, I saw my uncles fighting verbally, daily, for around 2-3 years. It has definitely affected me, I don't wanna marry, ever. I feel marriages are scam, they're never healthy and this belief is deep rooted in me that I won't ever find the type of guy I want.
But today, I'm not here to crib. My parents aren't the perfect examples, and they aren't really easy to love. They're too good for the world, and I hate this fact. Because I've seen how they've sacrificed everything for others. They want the best for everyone out there.
My friends, especially the ones who are from my hometown, don't have a healthy relationship with their parents. This is very rare where I've grown up. I think I have the coolest parents. I used to gossip about my partner and their families with my mom (while I was dating them). She almost knows that we used to have alcohol in our college parties. She accidentally saw my flight tickets to my ex's city and asked me about it, and when I got awkward she understood and never mentioned it again. My parents have even met my ex and his family. My mom used to tease me about how she's gonna convince everyone in my family to let me marry my ex since my family is very orthodox and ex was from a diff caste(unfortunately, mummy maan gayi par relationship hi nhi bacha). Mind you, even talking to male classmates out of school would get me into trouble 7-8 years ago. No one in my family consumes alcohol, not even my father. And even today, if my family gets to know I've done these things they'll throw me out.If I could go and tell my 16 year old self that my parents would become this cool, she'll probably kill herself out of excitement.
And this is my chat with my father. Mom and dad were on a trip, and me and my sister were home alone. They were worried we'll kill each other(typical parent behaviour). This is how I assured him we're having fun, party ho rahi bohot bhayankar, please don't worry about us, jaan nhi le rahe ek dusre ki.
I'm really glad I have such great parents. I kinda don't like the rest of my family, they get on my nerves and I can't stand their presence for much long. I hope I'll start earning soon and would give my parents the life they deserve. I fucking love them so much(aggressively). I don't wanna marry, ever. I want to live with them, I'm sure there'll be times when I won't feel like this but hey, isn't that how life's supposed to be.
tldr- Wholesome parents ke liye gratitude jata rahi hoon.
okay so confession time- I've grown up in a traditional joint family, and me being the eldest kid and that too a girl, had to rebel for literally every single modern day concept. Be it short dresses, going to a whole different city for college, hanging out with friends, having male friends, even for my own fucking privacy. I remember when I was in 9th grade, my aunt read my diary and told everyone about it. It was pretty hard as a teenager, I too was a pain in the ass. I do blame my parents for some things, but I completely understand it was their first time being a parent too. I don't hold any grudges against them. They never had an example, I was the first kid in my generation, in my paternal as well as my maternal family. I was given proper princess treatment till I was 6 and then due to some issues I had to live with my relatives, on and off for 2 years, and life went downhill. It was only a matter of few days and there were genuine issues at my home but I was kid, I remember crying myself to sleep on some days. Then when I returned, I saw my uncles fighting verbally, daily, for around 2-3 years. It has definitely affected me, I don't wanna marry, ever. I feel marriages are scam, they're never healthy and this belief is deep rooted in me that I won't ever find the type of guy I want.
But today, I'm not here to crib. My parents aren't the perfect examples, and they aren't really easy to love. They're too good for the world, and I hate this fact. Because I've seen how they've sacrificed everything for others. They want the best for everyone out there.
My friends, especially the ones who are from my hometown, don't have a healthy relationship with their parents. This is very rare where I've grown up. I think I have the coolest parents. I used to gossip about my partner and their families with my mom (while I was dating them). She almost knows that we used to have alcohol in our college parties. She accidentally saw my flight tickets to my ex's city and asked me about it, and when I got awkward she understood and never mentioned it again. My parents have even met my ex and his family. My mom used to tease me about how she's gonna convince everyone in my family to let me marry my ex since my family is very orthodox and ex was from a diff caste(unfortunately, mummy maan gayi par relationship hi nhi bacha). Mind you, even talking to male classmates out of school would get me into trouble 7-8 years ago. No one in my family consumes alcohol, not even my father. And even today, if my family gets to know I've done these things they'll throw me out.If I could go and tell my 16 year old self that my parents would become this cool, she'll probably kill herself out of excitement.
And this is my chat with my father. Mom and dad were on a trip, and me and my sister were home alone. They were worried we'll kill each other(typical parent behaviour). This is how I assured him we're having fun, party ho rahi bohot bhayankar, please don't worry about us, jaan nhi le rahe ek dusre ki.
I'm really glad I have such great parents. I kinda don't like the rest of my family, they get on my nerves and I can't stand their presence for much long. I hope I'll start earning soon and would give my parents the life they deserve. I fucking love them so much(aggressively). I don't wanna marry, ever. I want to live with them, I'm sure there'll be times when I won't feel like this but hey, isn't that how life's supposed to be.
tldr- Wholesome parents ke liye gratitude jata rahi hoon.